The world of children is fascinating, especially for toddlers aged 16-28 months. This is a period of exploration and rapid development as their executive functioning and neurons are constantly absorbing new information. At this stage, you'll often hear questions like "why?" and the big word "NO!" quite frequently.
Typical Toddler Behaviors
During this time, it's common for toddlers to:
- Show more tantrums
- Whine
- Test your limits
As a parent, this is when rules and consistency become crucial.
Setting Boundaries and Consistency
How you handle your toddler's testing of boundaries is key to your success as a parent of a young child. This is your chance to become an assertive parent who forms a secure attachment with your child. On the other hand, being overly anxious or overly loving can turn you into a doormat for their needs. This might sound harsh, but it’s the truth.
The Importance of Early Years
From birth to age four, you are shaping your child’s autonomy and character. This is why learning through play is emphasized—it builds their character.
Fostering Independence and Confidence
Encouraging independence in your toddler helps build their confidence and decision-making skills. Simple tasks like allowing them to choose their clothes or letting them help with small chores can make a big difference. Praise their efforts and provide guidance without taking over the task completely.
Establishing a Routine
Toddlers thrive on routine. Establishing a consistent daily schedule for meals, naps, and playtime helps them feel secure and understand what to expect. A predictable routine can reduce anxiety and improve behavior.
Signs of a Hyperactive Toddler
A hyperactive toddler can exhibit several signs that parents should be aware of:
- Is the behavior learned from their initial environment and being tested at home?
- Is my child bored?
- Is the activity provided age-appropriate?
- Is there a possibility of a learning disability like attention deficit disorder?
- Does my child respond to their name when not looking at me?
Managing Hyperactivity
To manage hyperactivity, provide a variety of engaging and age-appropriate activities. Physical activities like running, jumping, and playing outdoors can help burn off excess energy. Incorporate calming activities such as reading, puzzles, and drawing to balance their activity levels.
Understanding Behavioral Changes
Children behave the way they do for many reasons, including changes or transitions at home, such as:
- The birth of a new sibling
- Grief
- Trauma
- Separation
- Transition to school
- Intergenerational parenting dynamics
Dealing with Major Changes
When major changes occur, it's important to provide extra support and reassurance. Maintain open communication and listen to your child’s feelings. Consistency and patience are key in helping them adapt to new situations.
Helping Your Child Through Transitions
To assist in these transition processes, consider the following:
- Book an appointment with our family and child counseling services.
- Book an appointment with a family mediator.
- Enroll in a parenting course.
Seeking Professional Support
Professional support can provide valuable guidance and strategies tailored to your family’s needs. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help when needed.
Conclusion
Understanding and addressing your toddler's behaviors and needs is crucial for their development and your well-being as a parent. By fostering independence, maintaining consistency, and seeking support when necessary, you can help your child grow into a well-adjusted individual.
Authored By:
Rose Morsh
RECE, Parenting Practitioner,
Family Mediator & Child Voice Practitioner
