As a parent, practitioner, and educator in the field, I interact with children and their parents on a daily basis. Today, we are discussing the significance of safety and how to establish boundaries that support children's wellbeing in their day-to-day lives.
Safety can hold various definitions for different people, depending on how they perceive it as parents and the limits they set as a family. In this article, we will explore some of the common day-to-day challenges parents face.
What makes a child feel safe?
Providing structure and setting boundaries are essential.
Predictability makes the world less scary for children. They feel safe when they know what will happen next. As parents, it's crucial to be stable and predictable figures in our kids' lives.
How do you teach children safety?
- Set clear boundaries regarding places they may go, people they may see, and activities they may engage in.
- Your family boundaries must be age-appropriate, clear, and easily understandable based on the child's developmental needs and comprehension.
- Have realistic expectations and plan ahead to prevent potential hazards.
- Remind children gently and have them repeat safety instructions.
- Keep rules few in number to make it easier for children to remember and follow them.
As a parent, what can you do to ensure your child's safety?
- Be aware of the people and surroundings your child interacts with, paying attention to the safety factors of activities or places.
- Complete CPR and First Aid Level C training targeted at vulnerable children.
- Prevent and address injuries properly.
- Supervise children carefully, especially during playtime.
- Check play areas for hazards and remove them.
- Use safety equipment for children and teach them how to use it properly.
How do you teach young children to keep themselves safe?
- Engage in open communication with your kids, informing them about upcoming events and setting clear expectations.
- Be attentive to any changes in their behavior.
- Empower your kids by teaching them about their rights.
- Practice safety skills together.
In Conclusion
Ensuring a child's safety is of utmost importance. Safe, stable, nurturing relationships and environments are essential in preventing early adversity, including child abuse and neglect, and ensuring that all children reach their full potential.
In summary, by providing structure, setting clear boundaries, and being actively involved in our children's safety, we can create an environment where they feel secure and thrive.
Authored By:
Rose Morsh
RECE, Parenting Practitioner,
Family Mediator & Child Voice Practitioner